Lisa Lam

Uncertainty will create fear or adventure

I am reminded today of just how blessed I am. To be grateful and thankful for the simple things in life. I was in a group meeting and listening to some of the hard places that some people are going through was a great reminder to me that everyone of us has the hard andContinue reading “Uncertainty will create fear or adventure”

Its Not Fair

It’s not fair or It’s just not fair. Have we not thought that and even said it? Have we not thought that about everyone who has something that we don’t? Have we not wondered why life isn’t fair? Some will say that Life is Not Fair and in many ways its true. However, is thatContinue reading “Its Not Fair”

How do you break your cycle of negativity?

I am sure that every one of us goes through a cycle of being down or negative. We see the world and everything in it including ourselves through a great big lense of failure or pessimism. When we realise or are aware that we are in this cycle, what do we do to break thisContinue reading “How do you break your cycle of negativity?”

Perception of Change: How to change? Embrace and Extend.

Whenever we hear the word “Change”, the majority of responses would fall into these categories: Fear, Anxiety and Dread Fear and then Excitement Excitement and Anticipation. Probably only from the people who caused the change. It is no surprise that as “routine and comfort loving human beings”, any thing that requires us to change orContinue reading “Perception of Change: How to change? Embrace and Extend.”

Change for survival

I came across this interesting quote by W. Edwards Deming “It is not necessary to change. Survival is not mandatory.” It is true that we don’t have to change or even embrace change, but what would that leave us. Change is filled with fear, resistance and the unknown but it is all around us. InContinue reading “Change for survival”